Start out with something small. The idea is to create a feeling of “something is different”.

Monday: Leave a card for him that says “I am free Saturday, how about a date?” Get a little wild if you want and act like your husband/boyfriend is away and you want to be naughty! You can make this role playing or just keep it simple.

Tuesday: Surprise him with an unusual appetizer or dessert with your evening meal or just ask to meet him for coffee and dessert.

Wednesday: Ask him to go for a walk or hike after dinner. If you usually do this than just go somewhere different.

Thursday: Call him at work and ask to meet him for happy hour. If you usually do this find a new place! Dress with something different and sexy. Maybe some new perfume.

Friday: Maybe catch a movie or show or something he would like. Something mellow but again wear something sexy. Possibly offer a massage but no sex. Let him know you want this date night/weekend to be special.

Saturday: Date night! Go out, at least for a little while. Someplace different. Someplace he would like. This is the culmination of the week. Dress sexy, buy sexy lingerie, plan your evening with great food, if you like to be outdoors take a drive and have a sunset picnic, if you want to be wild go dancing if he likes to, shoot pool and show off your sexy outfit, tease him that your husband is out of town, try a sex game or toy if you want.

You can be conservative and romantic or wild and naughty. It is all up to you but building anticipation and doing something a little different will work wonders!

Till next time,
Jackie

We have a great spa in Northern New Mexico where locals like to go for a soak in the natural healing mineral baths. Recently they have be making improvements and now offer private tubs. These tubs are enclosed by 3 walls and one side is open to a mountain backdrop. There is room for 8 if you are looking for more adventure than romance but for two it is just heaven. At night they will light the Kiva fireplace and you can bath in the nude with your lover under the crisp night skies. Seriously romantic.

Finding a local hotel or spa that makes lets you forget about work and home can really do wonders for your relationship. If you are more into nature or on a budget you may want to try camping as well.

Jackie
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A private soak at the spa.

If your guy likes to use computers, then check out this awesome new game for lovers. Bliss is a passionate, romantic game for lovers who want to improve their love life and their relationship (you don’t have to tell them the relationship part It is full of creative romantic ideas to increase the fun you have together!

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Learn Massage Online!

Take this online course in the privacy of your own home!

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A Romantic Spa Getaway for Two!

Find great spa getaway deals for couples.

Hot Lingerie for Both of You!

Sexy lace lingerie is nice but you can really spice up the bedroom with Leather Lingerie. Bring out the bad and really knock him for a loop! Check out the seriously sexy leather at: Leather Lingerie

Nothing like heating up the bedroom with some sexy hot lingerie! Wrapping your body in a bodystocking will really make a statement. Bodystockings are seriously erotic and very reasonably priced.

Sexy Bodystocking

Don’t forget fishnet! Not just any bodystocking but a fishnet bodystocking no one can resist. Accent yourself with this simple yet of so sexy hosiery.
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Spice Up Your Love Life E Books

Here are some great books you can buy online and download right away!

300 Creative Dates

100 Great Sex Games for Couples
Sex All Around the House

Sexy Romantic Novelites

Learn to strip for him! Stripper music, games, chocoholics body frosting…

Personalized Gifts for Him

Visit the personalization mall for unique gift ideas for him.

Concert and Sporting Tickets

Surprise him with tickets to something he will really appreciate.

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Fragrance

For him and you.

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For Wine Lovers

A great selection of gifts for wine enthusiasts.

Everything Sports!

A huge selection of sports gear and accessories.

Unique Sporting Gifts

Retro sports clothing and memorabilia.

For the Golf Enthusiast

Awesome selection if Hi-Tech golf gear!

For the Boater

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Every Man Can Use a Great Watch

One way to look at gift giving is to appeal to his mind. You can start by appealing to the man’s primal nature. Nope, not talking about sex, yet, but the EGO. Yes, stroke that ego and hear him purr. Make him feel like the King; if just for an evening then so be it. There are many ways to do this, you can just offer to get him a drink, maybe his favorite snack, rub his back… You get the idea. If this is not your usual routine, it can produce shocking results.

While you are stroking that ego, it wouldn’t hurt to appeal to his sexual side. We will devote at least a whole post to sex but for now, just remember it is part of the equation. A part of being King is to have the Queen at his side.

Back to getting to know your man. When it comes to traditional gift giving, you must know his likes and dislikes, turn ons and turn offs, and hobbies. Would you make him happy by putting him in that new shirt that you would like to see him in, possibly, or would he really like a personalized golf club, or beer mug? (stroke that ego). Do you know him well enough to really know his sexual desires and fantasies, because if you think he does not have any, you don’t know him all that well.

I know, we are supposed to be talking about romantic gift ideas. Well, you can go strictly romance, or you may consider, based on knowing your man, a more practical gift that he will really enjoy. Personally, I like both. I mean, get him something practical, that is just for him, and spice up an evening, day, or weekend for the two of you! I believe that to keep it really romantic, the key is to enjoy some time together!